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A. Swinging (sometimes referred to as the swing lifestyle or simply the lifestyle) refers to relationships in which the partners participate in some form of consensual non-monogamous sexual experiences. The overall concept of a swing lifestyle club or venue is to provide a safe place where everyone can act out their personal sexual fantasies. While not all couples attend the parties to share partners or play with others, many like to know there are many possibilities out there. Some are open to sharing intercourse with their partners and friends. Others will flirt and enjoy threesomes or sexual acts that do not include actual intercourse. The most important thing is to have open discussions with others that might be interested prior to initiating any play. Communication is a must in the lifestyle and this means not only between partners but also with others. It gives you the chance for sexual exploration for those who are open minded.

A. Most lifestyle parties are social parties for couples and singles. They tend to dress up as they would for any downtown club or bar. However, at lifestyle functions we get to be alot more daring and provocative – it’s a chance to wear that revealing outfit that isn’t quite appropriate for downtown. Many times the parties are themed – imagine the possibilities for Halloween!!! No one is ever required to wear specific clothes (nor any clothes in some play areas) but clothes shopping suddenly takes on a new dimension for everyone! Each new experience and party will provide partners with ample avenues for discussion. Over time, relationships expand and grow as new fantasies are explored. Many times partners will change or adapt their boundaries over time through this discussion process. The lifestyle means something different to each person. There is nothing any person ever has to do and no one should ever feel they MUST say yes to a play request. There are many couples that enjoy lifestyle friendships and social events especially the great dances, but do not participate in the sexual activities.

A. No, but we do ask that if you do attend you are respectful and courteous to everyone and follow the rules while you're here. We have plenty of people who love to come and just watch. Anyone who is in the lifestyles with any sexual kinks may attend. BDSM is welcome as well, we just ask that you be open minded to others who are not into BDSM.

A. Not at all, some want to be watched, others want to watch. Some choose to just come and meet people, dance, and flirt. What you do is up to you and no one will ever force you to do anything you don't want. You're in control and No means No, at all times.

A. All walks of life attend from blue collar all the way to professional. Ages range from 21 to 70s years old.

A. Relax, take a deep breath, they are here for the same reason you are, people in the lifestyle are very discrete.

A. We don't want to give away all the  fun ahead of time, we want to make sure everyone's privacy is respected and we like to be discreet.

A. No that is the misconception and misinformation given out by people who are uneducated about the lifestyle and have never attended any type of lifestyle party and make up stories and rumors that they pass around and exactly why we try to educate the public. Our parties give couples and singles an avenue to come meet others, explore their fantasy and see if there is a connection or interest in a safe setting. After that it's completely up to each person if they want to move to a more private setting.  Your rules must be followed and respected. No means no and you never have to do anything you don't want. This is why we say you should always discuss your rules with your partner before ever attending and then stick to them.

A. This sometimes happens, don't push your partner, give them time and room to think about it and do not go behind their back, that is the definition of cheating and is frowned upon in the lifestyle.

A. First Time Attendees:

Step 1: Purchase a pass or membership that best suits you and include the requested Additional Information. We use social media for verification purposes, please provide links/username to several social media profiles like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Fetlife or other lifestyle websites/profiles for yourself (and your partner if purchasing a Couple pass). 

Step 2: Wait for email verification from Forbidden Staff, which will provide location. Do not arrive without approved pass/membership or you will be turned away.

Returning Attendees:

Step 1: Purchase a pass or membership that best suits you. If it has been more then 6 months since you last attended, also include the social media links.

Step 2: Wait for RSVPed email confirmation from Forbidden Staff. 

A. If  you want to attend an event, your purchase should be received no later than 6pm the day of, so plan ahead and don't wait. 

A. Of course, both are welcome as long as they are willing to abide by our rules and etiquette.

A. No, we do not have a liquor license so we are BYOB. You are welcome to bring your own drinks and alcoholic beverages. We will have ice available. 

A. This isn't your average meet up at a bar surrounded by families and kids.  Wear the attire you desire and BYOB. This is a great way to get familiar with the club and members in a casual setting.

A. Yes! Use the contact form to share a little about what kind of party you wish to throw, Bachelor/Bachelorette, Wedding, Birthday, Anniversary, boudoir/regular photo shoots etc and how many people you wish to attend. Cost starts out at $100/per hour, minimum of 3 hours.

A. Special Events are separate from your regular pass or membership and usually special entertainment, dinners etc. and have different pricing. Tickets will be available in the shop.

A. Playing in the main floor is allowed after 11pm on couches, benches and seating areas.

A. People love to watch and perform, the open door/window curtains facilitates your inner exhibitionist/voyeur.

A.  Like-minded guests are always invited. We want to bring in new people that our members know and trust. We have referral program which gives them a $10 off code.  If interested, send a message through the contact form or ask in person.